I seem to have some trouble remembering some of the lessons I’ve been taught about relationships, so perhaps I need to write them down and then I’ll be able to stop making the same mistakes over and over again.  So here goes -

1) crazy for it to be first, but it is the one that will keep me out of the most trouble if I follow it: is she doesn’t want to fuck you constantly just about from the beginning, and without much in the way of limits of what she wants to do sexually just about from the beginning, it isn’t going to change later and you need to just walk away.

2) if she is more interested in your kids or your wife than she is in you, that’s great for her relationship with them, but it isn’t going to work, and you need to just walk away.

3) if she doesn’t need you, walk away.

4) if she isn’t fairly crazy, walk away.

5) however, if her presence in your life means that you can’t have order in your life, walk away.  Tough balancing act, I know.

6) you have value, and are desirable.  If she doesn’t seem to feel this way about you, walk away.

7) if she isn’t a sexual deviant with a high sex drive, you’re just going to drive each other crazy.  Walk away.

if you find that you have to always drive the sex train, that she is compliant but never shows initiative or sexual want, walk away.  Even when dealing with a submissive, you can still expect them to show desire without prompting.  If you always have to prompt them, it will only drive you to despair.

9) if she is ok with you keeping your sexual desires to yourself, or if she shows a lack of interest in exploring your desires with you, walk away.

Well, those are the ones off the top of my head.  If you can think of any I’ve missed, please let me know so I can add them!